Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Two years after losing his sight, Yam Tong Woo has not only returned to golfing but is determined to establish and develop blind golf in this country
By EDWARD SAMINATHAN - ParGolf Magazine January 2010
Seated at the Kundang Lakes Country Club terrace, Yam Tong Woo looks like any other golfer having a drink after a round. But look closer and you will see a strange contraption by his side: a folded white cane.
"What's a blind guy doing here?" may be the first question that runs through your mind. "Do the blind even golf?" you may wonder next. Yam not only plays golf but is determined to establish and popularize blind golf here. "Other sports that the blind participate in like goalball usually involve only the blind; whereas golf is a game where they can play with the sighted,” said the affable 55-year-old with sliver-lined hair. “It allows for social interaction, empowering them to walk shoulder to shoulder with the sighted and enjoy the game together."
Yam's passion to introduce golf to the visually-impaired community is admirable. Recently, he almost single-handedly organized the first-ever blind golf event in Malaysia, the National Council for the Blind (NCBM) Friendly Golf Game, and is keen to go further. But barely two years ago, Yam was still a sighted golfer.
A LIFE-CHANGING EXPERIENCE
In January 2008, Yam led an ordinary life as an automotive engineer in Kunming, China, as
a husband and doting father to three children, and as an avid golfer. He did not give a second
thought to the fever he had contracted, not realizing that it was the start of a journey to a life without sight.
“It was a few days after New Year celebration. I had high fever and sought treatment in a private clinic. The next day, I started having eye discomfort and got admitted into a private hospital. Slowly, my eyesight began to blur,” relates Yam. “After a week of treatment there, I was transferred back to a hospital here in Malaysia. Operations and treatments did not help to save my sight and not too long later, the doctors had bad news for me: I was irreversibly blind,”
A bacterial infection, specifically the waterborne Klebsiella bacteria, not only left Yam blind but seriously affected his lung and liver functions; requiring him to undergo more operations and treatment. It took him almost an entire year to get back on his feet and in a way, learn to live life again.
“Life is such that never in my wildest dreams would I have given the slightest thought of this happening to me,” says Yam. “I felt like I was plunged into outer space; a darkness enveloping me and not knowing what was out there. Isolation, helplessness and fear – a mixed bag of emotions; it was a shock beyond description.”
“And my career came to a sudden stop. At 54, I was too young to be in this state,” adds
Yam, the disappointment still apparent in his voice.
PICKING UP THE PIECES
With his wife of three decades, Hong, and his three children by his side, Yam slowly but surely began picking up the pieces of his life. Little did he realize then that his battle would give him the strength and opportunity to help other unsighted folk.
“I must admit that I begin questioning my purpose in life. I felt so depressed, angry and sad that I had become a burden to my family,” reveals Yam. “My initial visit to the Malaysian Association for the Blind (MAB) was to seek advice and counselling. Later on, I begin enrolling in their programmes, which empowered me to be independent.”
Learning to move around with the white cane was the most important thing for Yam. "The cane is surely the essential mobility tool to me now and I cannot leave home without it," explains the Kuang resident, reaching out for his cane on the table. But if there is something else that Yam
acknowledges has allowed him to lead a normal life, is being able to use the computer. With a special screen-reader software, Yam is able to communicate via email and access the
internet just like any other person. “He’s even better at typing than me and my, can he sms!” exclaims proud wife Hong. Yam also wears a watch and before the question could be asked, he points out that “the watch talks.”
Turning to a topic that makes Yam sit up; we talk about his passion for golf and, in particular,
blind golf. A social golfer since 1994, Yam played off handicap 22 before losing his sight. So, what pushed him to take-up golf again? “After losing my sight, I became sedentary. I tried jogging which I used to do with my dogs but I didn’t find it enjoyable. My sons urged me to go to the driving range to try hitting some balls,” states Yam. “But, I felt embarrassed about how would people react. But I know the staff at Kundang Lakes well, so I called the club manager and told him about my situation. He said “I was ever so welcome to come back.” And so, I forced myself to overcome that mental barrier.”
The first swing as a blind golfer was a poignant moment for Yam “I stood there on the driving range, the same spot that I have stood many times before. Except now, all I could see was darkness,” he recalls. Soon, Yam returned to the course as probably the first ‘blind golfer’ in the country. “Blind golf is very different. I need a sighted guide to help me assess the terrain and
distance as well as the position of the ball, club face, pin and myself,” he explains. “The rest is dependent on your own feel and judgement. Just keep your head down and focus on the location of the ball, even if you can't see it. The icing on the cake is obviously hearing sound of a good contact when the club strikes the ball. There is always a lapse of silence, seconds of anxious waiting after hitting the ball; unlike previously, when I can focus on the flying ball for a few seconds,” Yam elaborates. “Being dependent on a sighted guide, you need to be patient and very importantly, trust the advice given. There’s really no two-ways about it,” says Yam.
Yam says that being able to swing again has been therapeutic. "It helped me regain some of my confidence and self esteem. Now, I'm able to invite my golfing kakis to play with me," he grins.
This was what inspired Yam to develop blind golf here, so that more blind people can benefit from the therapeutic effects of golfing.
"The idea for a blind golf event came up during a casual chat with my friend, Moses Choo from
the NCBM. He was talking about the Hong Kong Blind Sports Association (HKBSA), which were in close contact with NCBM. I then found out that one of the activities organized by HKBSA was golf. I was ecstatic!” explains Yam. He adds, “So I told Moses, I would very much like to get involved if there was a possibility of getting blind golf here. We begin communicating with our Hong Kong counterparts and we were lucky as they were keen to help us spread the game here.
It took us a few months to get the ball rolling and then we begin approaching the clubs here.”
Yam’s voice takes on a serious tone when asked about the reception from local clubs. “Most of the clubs have not heard about the blind playing golf and they were quite sceptical. Most were not favourable for myriad of reasons but I don’t blame them. That is the point I realized that there is little or no awareness at all about blind golf here in Malaysia. It was always going to be an uphill task,” relates Yam.
Finally, Yam managed to rope in Bukit Jalil Golf & Country Club as the host for the first ever blind golf event in Malaysia on October 15. Yam relates his first meeting with the club’s management: “On our first meeting, I could sense the shock in them seeing a blind guy walking up to them. For the first ten minutes, you could feel the awkwardness; how do respond and what to do,” he chuckles. “But they listened to our requests and by the time I met them for the second and third meeting, the barriers had broken down and everything was fine.”
With the event running smoothly with few hitches, Yam is proud that the first step towards introducing blind golf has been successful. “We managed to create public awareness but we still have a long way to go. We can’t change mindsets overnight and people will be people; unless there is a continued awareness push, interest will wane,” he admits.
“But more importantly, for many of my blind friends, this was the first time they were holding golf clubs or even stepping foot into a course. Whether they will play again or not, I don’t know, but I know that they will cherish that experience for a lifetime. It gives them bragging rights. Air shots are immaterial but at least they have been exposed to golf, what’s the game all about, how it’s played and how difficult it is,” says Yam.
Yam is currently on a mission to form a pro-tem blind golf association here, with the end goal of gaining affiliating with the International Blind Golf Association (IBGA). “Without a proper set-up, it will be difficult for us to get sponsors, financial assistance and support from the golfing fraternity. Also, with consistent exposure and opportunity, more visually-impaired individuals will be able to take up the game. Who know, maybe one day, the world champion may be from Malaysia!
Hopefully I can get this off the ground,” says Yam. “But of course, there are a lot of sceptics
around, whether blind or sighted. I have to overcome all these hurdles and just keep going. But I’m confident it can be done. Even in England and Scotland, where the game is flourishing now, the people who initially started the game also faced similar hurdles. So, it’s just a rite of passage that I have to go through but at least, I can learn from their experiences,” stresses Yam, his conviction apparent. The American blind educator, Helen Keller, once said: 'When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.' Yam Tong Woo is set to open more doors not only for
himself but others as well.
More challenging times ahead!
Friday, January 8, 2010
Thank you to Dave (One Shot) for this enlightening blog article.
Posted by One Shot at 7:30 PM
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Walking into the quiet terrace of the Kundang Lakes Golf Club, I immediately recognise Yam Tong Woo from our previous meeting during the National Council for the Blind White Cane Day Golf Event. As it is custom with blind people, I greet him with a slight touch on his arm. We shake hands and I ask him "How's golf?" He replies with a big smile . Yam may not be the first blind golfer in Malaysia but there is no denying the role he has played in introducing golf to the blind here. Organizing the first full-fledged blind golf event in our shores, he has opened doors that many would never have imagined.
If you are wondering, Yam wasn't born blind. He is relatively a new member to the blind community here; a cruel twist of fate robbing his sight two years ago. As if it was only yesterday, events of January 2008 remain fresh in Yam's mind. Then based in Kunming, China, the automotive engineer specializing in heavy industrial machinery had thought little of the fever he had contracted. Little did he realize that it was the start of a journey that a reasonable man would not have imagined; a life without sight.
"It was a few days after New Year celebration. I had high fever and sought treatment in a private clinic. The next day, I started having eye discomfort and got admitted into a private hospital. Slowly, my eyesight began to blur," relates Yam. "After a week of treatment there (Kunming), I was transferred back to a hospital here in Penang. Operations and treatments did not help to save my sight. Soon, I was declared to be irreversibly blind," adds Yam, recalling the traumatic period of his life.
A bacterial infection, to be exact, the water-borne Klebsiella bacteria not only left Yam blind but seriously affected his lung and liver functions, requiring him to undergo further operations and treatment. It took him almost an entire year to get back on his feet and in a way, learn to lead life again.
"Life is such that never in my wildest dream would I have given the slightest thought of this happening to me," says Yam. "I felt like I was plunged into outer space; a darkness enveloping me and not knowing what was out there. Isolation, helplessness and fear – a mixed bag of emotions; it was a shock beyond description. And my career came to a sudden stop. At 54, I was too young to be in this state," shares Yam, not disguising the tone of disappointment in his voice.
First on his list to learn, was something that many of us take for granted but which is essentially synonymous with the blind: the white cane. Yam admits that learning to use the cane has done him a tonne of good. "The white cane is clearly an essential mobility tool to me now and I cannot leave home without it now, explains Yam." He is not shy to share his misadventures with picking up Braille though. "I am still trying to learn it. The sense of touch and feel at my age is not as sensitive as it was during my youth obviously. So, I would need a lot of practise and guidance to master it."
We turn to a topic that immediately brightens Yam's face and which he is passionately pursuing now: golf; in particular, blind golf. A social golfer since 1994, Yam was initially pulled into the auld game by his peers back then. Playing off a handicap of 22, he joined the Kundang Lakes, which was located a short drive away from his home in Kuang, Rawang. The inevitable question to ask him was what pushed him to pick-up golf again?
"After losing sight, I became sedentary. I tried jogging which I used to do with my dogs but I didn't find it enjoyable. My sons urged me to go to the driving range to try hitting some balls," states Yam. "But, I felt embarrassed. How would people react; I have grown to know the staff at the club so well. So, I called the club manager and told him about my situation. He said "I was ever so welcome to come back." And so, I forced myself to overcome that mental barrier."
His first swing was a poignant moment for Yam "I stood there on the driving range, the same spot that I have stood many times before. Except now, all I could see was darkness," he says, reminiscing that nostalgic moment. When asked to describe his golf now in his own words, Yam explains "It's very different. I need a sighted guide to help me assess the terrain and distance as well as the position of the ball, club face, pin and myself."
"The rest is dependent on your own feel and judgement. The icing on the cake is hearing a good contact sound of the club striking the ball. There is always a lapse of silence, seconds of anxious waiting after hitting the ball; unlike previously, when I can focus on the flying ball for a few seconds," says Yam.
Of course, he is the first to admit that he has been forced to adapt his way of playing golf. "Being dependent on a sighted guide, you need to be patient and very importantly, trust the advice given. There's really no two-way about it," says Yam. With either his wife or sons guiding him these days, Yam is planning to gather his old golfing kakis for a round. Rather reservedly Yam says "It's not that they deserted me or anything. Perhaps, they don't know how to handle me or they think I may not be interested."
"But there is a hard fact of life that I must share. People look at me as just another blind individual. It is automatic.
More challenging times ahead!